WifeSkills101 Showed Me the Way—Now We're Showing You (1/5)
How Sam’s dating advice helped me go from confused and heartbroken to confidently chosen—now we’re sharing the habits, shifts, and emotional skills every marriage-minded woman needs.
Hey love,
That’s me in the wedding photo—holding hands with the man who proposed to me on our very first date.
If that sounds like a fairytale… it wasn’t always that way.
For most of my life, I didn’t think “wife” was something I’d ever want to be. I came from a broken home, watched love fall apart up close, and spent years in relationships that went nowhere. I gave everything and got confusion, heartbreak, and silence in return.
Until I met Sam.
Sam didn’t just give me advice—she gave me language. She gave me tools. She helped me stop performing for love and start preparing for it. She taught me how to soften without shrinking, how to lead with warmth instead of control, and how to date in a way that made commitment inevitable.
That work—the real work—is what birthed The Art of Wifery.
Sam developed what she calls Wife Energy: the shift that turns a woman from “interesting” to irreplaceable. And WifeSkills101 is where she teaches that art.
This Substack is more than tips and quotes. It’s where the deeper stuff lives—the real frameworks, the habits, the emotional rewiring that makes a man see you not just as someone he likes… but someone he needs.
If you’re tired of guessing, over-giving, or getting stuck in situationships with no payoff—this is your space. And I promise: you’re not too late, too much, or too far gone.
You’re right on time.
WifeSkills101 began with Sam’s wisdom, but it lives through me now—through my story, my marriage, and this community of women choosing more.
If you feel like we’re speaking directly to your story… stick with us.
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—then keep reading. Because everything you’ve wanted is closer than you think.
With love,
Esther Vale